If you have a quarantine box or something to separate the tank, do it asap. I'm fairly new to this as well, but I've read a few reputable books, and the issue is from the fact that convicts are monogamous breeders. If the male and female are not compatible (male is too aggressive, kills female; male is too submissive, female kills male during pairing; they simply are not compatible, and the submissive one dies), it just won't work. From what I've read in books and in this forum, you should get multiple fish to hope for one compatible pair.
A lot of my input here is recently attained knowledge- listen to others- DJRansome, Augballagh (sp), Oscar6, and Stu have all personally helped me! I see a lot of good input from SEVERAL other members. This is the place to be. I'm trying my best to give help now.
I can 100% say that with the behavior you're describing, separation is the only way to ensure survival. Again, read what others with more experience say when they read your post.
A lot of my input here is recently attained knowledge- listen to others- DJRansome, Augballagh (sp), Oscar6, and Stu have all personally helped me! I see a lot of good input from SEVERAL other members. This is the place to be. I'm trying my best to give help now.
I can 100% say that with the behavior you're describing, separation is the only way to ensure survival. Again, read what others with more experience say when they read your post.