Anyone ever had a female tank boss? My old tank boss was a 3.5" auloncara baenschi. I had a tank crash a while back and of the auloncara group, only the male tank boss and one other female survived. I've since restocked with all juvies. But when it comes to the auloncara, I wanted to keep their group set at the 1 male. So I purchased 2 known females of the same species and requested the smallest ones. When the two females came in, one was the same size as the male and one was slightly bigger. Its been a couple of weeks now and my male has lost his mojo. He's healthy but not as active and never chases anyone anymore. He's also scared of the larger female and she will chase him occasionally. Did I just mess up the dynamic of the group? Will he have to eventually grow larger than her before he gains some confidence?