I am trying to get my neolamp. pulcher (daffodils) to breed. (Funny, I know - not usually a difficult task.) Are you ready for the whole story? Here goes....
I bought a beautiful breeding/mated pair. The male freaked out about being transported - as soon as I put him in to the tank he went behind the rocks and never returned - found dead the next morning. The female never skipped a beat & is doing very well. About 2 days after, I bought 2 new males (much younger than her & her previous male) and put them into the tank. Eventually the one male decided it was time for the other to leave. I rescued him from the tank & gave him to the LFS. The female accepted the male... as a friend but apparently not a mate, after SEVERAL months (I want to say 9?) they have still not mated. Yesterday I got a nice male about the same size as my female and put him in there hoping she will mate with him. However, she believes she is THE BOSS of the tank & is already busy flexing on him to keep him in his place. She's only nipped at him a couple times, but she swims at him & he backs down to her. Sometimes she will just hang out with him & not bother him, though. I have already moved things in the tank around 3 times, lol. Is this normal for the getting to know you period, or is she just not going to accept him? Oh, the younger male is still in there & the new male is not bothered by him. Also, I fed them just a little while ago & he ate good.