I'm surprised to hear that. Dems are typically a lot more aggressive than haras.RRasco said:Oh man, you're in for it. My initial stocking list was dems, hara, and yellow labs. I only keep hara now and I didn't trade my dems off or rehome them.....they were all murdered by my hara. I would recommend choosing the species you like best and sticking to it, you may get lucky, but I bet those hara nuke the dems.
And yes, definitely probably a male. They color up very early. I'm actually looking at three 2" hara that are fully white with black bars in my growout, right now.